THE STRENGTH TO
do Love, Life, & Divorce better…
The Relationship Audit
The Assessment to End Uncertainty About Where Your Relationship Is REALLY At.
Every client begins here.
The Relationship Audit™ is a guided, research-backed clarity tool designed to finally help you answer the question, “Should I stay or should I go?”
Through a comprehensive evaluation of the 12 core pillars of a healthy relationship — including communication, trust, intimacy, values, conflict patterns, and emotional safety — you’ll identify exactly where your relationship is aligned, where it’s breaking down, and how that’s impacting your happiness and wellbeing.
Instead of endless overthinking or guessing, you walk away with a clear, personalized diagnostic report that reveals the true state of your relationship today and gives you straightforward next steps — whether that means rebuilding with intention or beginning the process of letting go.
The Relationship Audit™ is your first step out of confusion and into confident, empowered decision-making.
$199
YOUR RELATIONSHIP PRESCRIPTION PLANS
Step 1: Complete
The Relationship Audit.
Step 2: Once you’ve completed the Audit and received your personalized diagnostic report, you’ll be recommended one of two tailored pathways (see descriptions below) based entirely on your unique results.
Step 3: Book a Prescription Plan Intake Call. Your score doesn’t tell you whether your relationship is “good” or “bad.” It tells you exactly where you are in its lifespan — whether it is repairable or ready for transition. You don’t need more time to think. You need clarity, structure, and the right next steps.
PATH 1:
The Relationship ReBoot™
8-Week Repair & Reconnect Program
For the person questioning the relationship but feels there might be something left to fight for, and wants one final, real attempt at repair before deciding if it’s time to walk away.
What it is:
A private, customized, one-to-one relationship rescue system targeted at repairing, reconnecting and rebuilding the 3 lowest-scoring areas of your Relationship Audit™.
This is for you if:
You don’t want to give up yet without trying something different.
You feel something is missing or not working, but not everything is broken.
You desire closeness and connection with your partner — but you can’t seem to get there with therapy alone.
You want to understand whether this relationship can actually be revived before making any final decisions.
You’re scared that if you do nothing now, the relationship will quietly deteriorate into resentment, emotional distance, or an affair (…if that isn’t happening already…)
What it promises:
A personalized action plan for how to close the gaps and rebuild connection based on your
3 lowest-scored Relationship Audit categories
Structure, tools, accountability check-ins, and guided strategies designed to actually make change in your relationship
Support in understanding your own patterns and how to reprogram them
A safe place to process fears, resentment, and unmet needs without judgment
Why it matters:
Most relationships don’t collapse because of one big betrayal — they erode because no one takes direct and purposeful action early enough. This is the window where repair is still possible. And instead of spending any more money and time in counselling or therapy talking in circles, The Relationship ReBoot™ promises tangible tools and strategies, and the emotional structure to make one last honest attempt at saving your relationship.
Are you stuck, uncertain, and find yourself thinking about divorce but terrified at the mere thought of it?
How would your life be different if you weren’t struggling with this anymore?
How would it feel not to have these thoughts?
What if you could divorce the dysfunction, but not your partner?
Is it time to really get clear about your life and your relationship?
“I can’t emphasize enough how much this intensive changed my life. Cindy encouraged me to face the hard truths I was avoiding and helped me get very clear about my marriage . I found the courage to have the difficult conversations knowing with certainty what I really wanted and my wife and I are on a much better path now. This work saved me from divorce. ”
“Working this Cindy has been a true lifesaver for me. I was torn between staying or how to get a divorce, not knowing what the right choice was. Cindy provided the safe space I needed to really get clear of what I wanted and what was really keeping me stuck. My husband and I are trying to make some important changes and create something new and therapy wouldn’t have done this for me.”
PATH 2:
The Decision Plan™
For the person who is undecided about whether they want to stay or go, but they do want absolute clarity, certainty, and a plan for what comes next.
8 & 16 Week Plans Available
If your overall Relationship Audit score is 64% or lower, you may not be in a season of repair. You are in a season of decision-making.
What it is:
A confidential, customized, one-to-one relationship decision system that helps you crystallize the direction that’s right for you and map out your next steps. This is not about fixing the relationship — it’s about getting you crystal clear, prepared, and emotionally anchored for the path ahead.
This is for you if:
You’ve emotionally checked out — you’re just not fully admitting it yet.
You’re no longer ‘in love’, or you’re in love with someone else.
A big part of you wants out, but guilt, fear, and uncertainty is keeping you frozen.
You’re done trying — but you want to be absolutely sure you’re not walking away too soon to regret your decision.
You know separation is likely, you just don’t know how to prepare for it or where and when to start.
You don’t want to blow up your life impulsively — you want to do this right - with intention and integrity for the sake of the kids and for the history you’ve already shared
What it promises:
Complete emotional clarity on whether you are truly done
A grounded, structured roadmap for next steps
Realistic scenario mapping for the possibility of separation: co-parenting, finances, routines, boundaries, hard conversations, and logistics
Support in navigating guilt, fear, grief, or emotional ambivalence
A step-by-step plan for what to do first, what to avoid, and when to involve professionals
Why it matters:
Ending a relationship — or even preparing to end one — is life-altering. Most people wait too long, act impulsively, or leave from exhaustion and desperation. The Decision Plan™ prevents that. It guarantees you get clear first… plan second… and act from integrity, clarity, and assurance instead of staying stuck in fear.
WHICH PATH IS YOURS?
Don’t stay stuck when you don’t have to…
I help high-functioning women and men stuck in relationship limbo find the clarity, confidence, and courage to either repair their connection or release their relationship without regret.
Because staying stuck in indecision is its own kind of suffering. Most people don’t need another therapist— they need raw truth, direction, and a plan.
I was you.
So I created what didn’t exist when I needed it most.
I spent the last five years of a 22-year marriage stuck in indecision purgatory — stuck, unhappy, unfulfilled, scared, numb and detached. I kept hoping something would change, but all that changed was time. Every day felt like Groundhog Day — the same conversations, the same avoidance, the same unmet needs, the same false promises, the same loneliness, the same ache of knowing I wasn’t living the life I was meant to in the relationship I was in, and I couldn't save the sinking ship all on my own.
I lost time with my kids, my career, and myself because I was so consumed by my unhappiness. I went to therapy for many months, but it didn’t help me make a decision. It helped me process the little girl in me, but it didn’t help me make a move as an adult.
I realized — there was nothing out there for people like me. No roadmap. No guide. No real clarity for a relationship that is slowly dying.
So, I created it.
I built The Relationship Audit™ and my high-touch signature coaching programs to give you what I didn’t have — a structured, emotionally intelligent process to finally see the truth of your relationship clearly and decide, with confidence, whether to stay or go.
You shouldn’t be wasting any more years of your life living half-alive in a relationship that might already be over — or walk away from one that could’ve been saved with the right tools, strategies and guidance.
I exist to help you stop waiting for the “right time” and start living right now, fully in the one precious life you have.
Why wait to figure things out?
After you have completed The Relationship Audit and received your diagnostic results, book your FREE Prescription Plan Intake Call to discuss which path is right for you.