THE STRENGTH TO
to decide, “Should I Stay or Should I Go?”
The Relationship Audit
Your starting point. Your snapshot. Your truth.
Before you can decide anything, you need to see clearly.
The Relationship Audit™ is a guided, research-backed diagnostic that evaluates your relationship across 12 core pillars — communication, trust, intimacy, shared values, conflict patterns, emotional safety, and more. You'll see exactly where things are aligned, where they're breaking down, and what it's actually costing you.
No more overthinking in circles. No more second-guessing yourself.
You walk away with a personalized diagnostic report that shows you the real state of your relationship today — and clear next steps, whether that's rebuilding with intention or beginning to let go.
The Audit is included in The Decision Plan — or you can purchase it as a standalone first step if you're not ready to commit to the full program yet.
$399
YOUR RELATIONSHIP
ADVISORY PLANS
Step 1: Complete
The Relationship Audit.
Step 2: Once you’ve completed the Audit and received your personalized diagnostic report, you’ll be recommended one of two tailored pathways (see descriptions below) based entirely on your unique results.
Step 3: Book a Relationship Advisory Application Call. Your score doesn’t tell you whether your relationship is “good” or “bad.” It tells you exactly where you are in its lifespan — whether it is repairable or ready for transition. You don’t need more time to think. You need clarity, structure, and the right next steps.
PATH 1:
The Relationship ReBoot™
Repair & Reconnect - 8 Week Commitment
For the person questioning the relationship but feels there might be something left to fight for, and wants one final, real attempt at repair before deciding if it’s time to walk away.
What it is:
A private, customized, one-to-one relationship rescue system targeted at repairing, reconnecting and rebuilding the 3 lowest-scoring areas of your Relationship Audit™.
This is for you if:
You don’t want to give up yet without trying something different.
You feel something is missing or not working, but not everything is broken.
You desire closeness and connection with your partner — but you can’t seem to get there with therapy alone.
You want to understand whether this relationship can actually be revived before making any final decisions.
You’re scared that if you do nothing now, the relationship will quietly deteriorate into resentment, emotional distance, or an affair (…if that isn’t happening already…)
What it promises:
A personalized action plan for how to close the gaps and rebuild the connection based on your
3 lowest-scored Relationship Audit categories
Structure, tools, accountability check-ins, and guided strategies designed to actually make change in your relationship
Support in understanding your own patterns and how to reprogram them
A safe place to process fears, resentment, and unmet needs without judgment
Why it matters:
Most relationships don’t collapse because of one big betrayal — they erode because no one takes direct and purposeful action early enough. This is the window where repair is still possible. And instead of spending any more money and time in counselling or therapy, talking in circles, The Relationship ReBoot™ promises tangible tools and strategies, and the emotional structure to make one last honest attempt at saving your relationship.
Are you stuck, uncertain, and find yourself contemplating divorce but terrified at the mere thought of it?
How would your life be different if you weren’t struggling with this anymore?
How would it feel not to have these thoughts?
What if you could divorce the dysfunction, but not your partner?
Is it time to finally get clear about your relationship?
“I can’t emphasize enough how much this intensive changed my life. Cindy encouraged me to face the hard truths I was avoiding and helped me get very clear about my marriage . I found the courage to have the difficult conversations knowing with certainty what I really wanted and my wife and I are on a much better path now. This work saved me from divorce. ”
“Working this Cindy has been a true lifesaver for me. I was torn between staying or how to get a divorce, not knowing what the right choice was. Cindy provided the safe space I needed to really get clear of what I wanted and what was really keeping me stuck. My husband and I are trying to make some important changes and create something new and therapy wouldn’t have done this for me.”
PATH 2:
The Decision Plan™
For the person who is undecided about whether they want to stay or go,
but they do want absolute clarity, certainty, and a plan for what comes next.
Monthly Advisory
(8-week minimum commitment)
A confidential, customized, one-to-one relationship decision system that helps you crystallize the direction that’s right for you and map out your next steps. This is not about fixing the relationship — it’s about getting you crystal clear, prepared, and emotionally anchored for the path ahead.
This is for you if:
You’ve emotionally checked out — you’re just not fully admitting it yet.
You’re no longer ‘in love’, or you’re in love with someone else.
A big part of you wants out, but guilt, fear, and uncertainty is keeping you frozen.
You’re done trying — but you want to be absolutely sure you’re not walking away too soon to regret your decision.
You know separation is likely, you just don’t know how to prepare for it or where and when to start.
You don’t want to blow up your life impulsively — you want to do this right - with intention and integrity for the sake of the kids and for the history you’ve already shared
What it promises:
Complete emotional clarity on whether you are truly done
A grounded, structured roadmap for next steps
Realistic scenario mapping for the possibility of separation: co-parenting, finances, routines, boundaries, hard conversations, and logistics
Support in navigating guilt, fear, grief, or emotional ambivalence
A step-by-step plan for what to do first, what to avoid, and when to involve professionals
Why it matters:
Ending a relationship — or even preparing to end one — is life-altering. Most people wait too long, act impulsively, or leave from exhaustion and desperation. The Decision Plan™ prevents that. It guarantees you get clear first… plan second… and act from integrity, clarity, and assurance instead of staying stuck in fear.
WHICH PATH IS YOURS?
Don’t stay stuck when you don’t have to…
You already know something is wrong. The question is what to do about it.
You've been here — staying for the kids, the life you built, the version of the relationship you remember. Waiting for it to get better. Wondering if leaving would make you a failure. Living half-present in your own life.
That's not a marriage problem. That's a decision problem.
I spent five years stuck where you are now.
Twenty-two years of marriage. Five of them in what I now call indecision purgatory — unhappy, numb, going through the motions. I tried therapy. It helped me understand my past. It didn't help me make a move.
There was nothing out there for someone like me. No framework. No guide. Just the same conversations, the same avoidance, the same quiet grief of knowing I wasn't living the life I was supposed to be living.
So I built it. Private Relationship Advisory to give you what I didn't have: a structured, emotionally intelligent process to see your relationship clearly — and decide, finally, which direction is yours.
Why wait to figure things out?
Book a Private Relationship Advisory Application Call to discuss which path is right for you.